Sunday, 2 March 2014

Boys vs Men.

Boys vs Men. 

It's true what they say about relationships, the older you get the wiser you are. You can distinguish the difference between boys and men. You understand the difference and you have your preferences.

A lot of people I know have a type and their pretty picky, with none or minimal compromises. You see I understand this but I also don't. I get that there's a certain type of guy that people are attracted to, but how can you rule the rest out? After all, "opposites attract".

Now when I'm asked what my type is, I instantly describe my perfect man. Tall, dark and handsome with piercings and tattoos, who has a great sense of humour, can hold a conversation, stays loyal and can treat a girl right. But let's face it, that's an illusion and just someone I want.  There may be someone that fits that description perfectly but what's the chance I'm going to meet him. A very very minor chance.

What exactly defines a man you may ask. Well in my opinion it's pretty simple.
1. They don't play games in relationships
2. Their stable
3. They have respect for people
4. There not immature (well, most of the time)
5. They know what they want
6. They've grown up

No age defines a man, and no age defines a boy. The male species can still act like boys at forty, and can act like men at twenty, it's just how they decide to act.